We hold different positions during our relationships and we take on these positions for different reasons … when it comes to those positions there are two that are quite common standing and sitting 

When we first meet we stand or hold a standing position and in respecting differing abilities those who are unable to stand then their default position is being seated …. either way that is the postion where we get to know, where we observe as we interact before moving forward to the more relaxed postions and the deepening of the relationship and this can apply to any relationship in any context…

Now we can find ourselves sitting just about anywhere on anything and at anytime…. 

but before sitting … the responsbility is ours, yours and mine, to observe where we are, to take note of how we feel, of what has happened and has been happening .. of the type of sitting arrangements being offered to us so we can make an informed decision BEFORE SITTING …

aND WHY ? bECAUSE the consequences of sitting will fall to us and to us alone …. while we love to consider and cling to the notion of poetic justice and karma… consequences remain consequences…

So before sitting …. it is for all of us to consider that the ranting and raving about someone dishing out BS in a relationship and this can be any kind of relationship in any setting … this comes after the fact when the consequences of our sitting is already being experienced … and also when or if we are moved to lament over being given BS in a relationship remember we had the opportunity to do due diligence before …

when and only when this harsh reality is accepted are we able to keep a balanced perspective which then …. empowers us to do which we can to not repeat or limit the BS expereinced in future relationships …

and to those who have been spared such experiences well remember to consider all factors before sitting to limit the feeling and real experience of being given the BS backlash in relationships 

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