Try as Ana May might she was unable to pull from her beloved Dick the love and commitment she wanted from her relationship and her Anabel was not doing the trick…
This was no ordinary postpartum but the type that came because of a mourning for a relationship that was …the type that came because the child trick had not worked ..
so “I starve you starve”
Anabel would now become exposed to what Ana was exposed to as a child…
NOT being loved for the essence of who they were but being loved if and only if…
Anabel got love when or if her baby actions were interpreted as comforting Ana
Anabel got love when or if someone mentioned how much she resembled her daddy
Anabel got love when or if Ana needed to feel indispensable…
(outside of that Anabel was deemed a nuisance and a trigger for Ana May’s postpartum depression …she took time away from Ana May being able to mourn and track down her Dick)
Without realizing it Anabel was creating another her…another woman who was being conditioned from early that they were not worthy of love just because they were naturally worthy but only when or if they made the object of their desire happy..only if or when they worked tirelessly to please the object of their affections and even so another woman was being conditioned that no matter what they did they would never become loved for who they were in a real way for they were always there to simply be useful to another just as Anabel was a tool to save a relationship
The truth can be a bitter pill but it can also be our saving grace if worked through….What would become of Ana May….
Tune in next week for more as Ana May goes back in time
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