“Life is a game” by now we’ve heard this. Well comparing life to being on the field of whatever sport we choose, there is one thing that is an absolute must…

Valuing A Referee!

Yep VAR is not just for football advancement creating more fair play especially as we noticed at World Cup 2018 https://wired868.com/2018/07/27/dissecting-var-and-tts-world-cup-lessons-downer-fenwick-merere-maylee-and-ramdhan-discuss/ but VAR is that thing that we all at one point or the other are going to need to bring in and put to use in our own game…

As in the World Cup VAR…during our game of life, we would get a signal or a plea from another that we better consult our VAR…

Our signal might include… a disagreement that stops things from going on as they were before, an unacceptable behaviour (let’s call it a ‘foul’) that calls for our attention…

Our VAR would come in when whoever is involved in the conflict with us and ourselves, have made our attempts to settle things but still cannot seem to agree..

That is when we do the sign, you know that ‘box sign’ where whoever is involved agree to Value A REFEREE…

Our VAR might be an elder, a specialist in some field, a spiritual leader, you name it…

But the main thing is, there is a mutual agreement that this VAR can get it right, like the complaints about the VAR @t the World Cup 2018, it might take some time but the basic idea is that it is worth the wait to resolving the conflict…and then all involved feel satisfied that all was done to address concerns in a fair matter…

VAR then is really about small-scale social justice that helps us maintain civil relationships in this game of lifehttps://wired868.com/2018/07/27/dissecting-var-and-tts-world-cup-lessons-downer-fenwick-merere-maylee-and-ramdhan-discuss/ 

#conflictresolution #mediation…

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