Many of us focus on the risk factor of those with diagnoses or mental health concerns such as …
bipolar disorder or manic depression, clinical depression, et. al….
yet there is a real factor that can be guiding how people interact in the workplace and in romantic relationships where real havoc can be done
and these people come out ‘smelling like a rose’ while the other would be victims and targets are usually accused, assaulted and/or abused.
Such is the trail of the NARCISSIST………………….
AND such is their pattern;
In the workplace Shastra would often sit in the lunch room and wave across the room from her target, eventually she befriends her target and does all the right ‘friendly things’ till viewed as a ‘lovely girl’ in comes the SEDUCE … Shastra then shares info that seems ever so private with her target aka friend .. of course the friend position is now SECURE … thereafter the abuse begins.. Shastra works underneath to wreck havoc in her targets life … causing confusion in the workplace and acting innocent .. why because Shastra feeds on drama where she can emphasize others flaws and indirectly show herself as better….
Narcissists paint your world blue! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7VeoEmaxjg4
That man or woman observes at the party, on the job, in the community, for minutes, days, weeks, months, years, they look for the
kind-hearted/innocent/naïve/conscientious/ any qualities that suggest that the target might be more gullible than others. They study to KNOW HOW TO TALK, ABOUT WHAT TO TALK, IN WHAT TONE TO TALK and what to say and so their would be partner is now into phase 2 SEDUCE. a tell-tale sign too is the tendency to rush physical/sexual interactions, a commitment, move for frequent sexual interactions or dedicated sexual ‘performances’ all to SECURE there place and position in the life of the other then it begins …the mild put downs, the ghosting or disappearances, the attempt to win over family and friends and distance their target from support systems and it is all done so skillfully that all others remain under the seduction of their talk as the romantic target begins to get over the illusion.
Remember narcissists talk the talk
BEWARE BEWARE BEWARE BEWARE BEWARE BEWARE BEWARE…