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Benefits of Tantra for Healing by MindBodyGreen

It’s human to have a need for Power. We all have it men women and children. When we think of leaders and politics we understand very clearly the dangers of abuse of power. Often we might not appreciate that our intimate relationships also involves politics and power. Politics has to do with rule and power. In relationships, we allow space for partners to rule and share power. For example, a couple might decide to share the rule over finances. household chores or they might share the rule of the household giving specific areas to one partner or the other. In relationships generally because of partners care, love and respect for each other, each is able to influence the other; that’s power.

In abusive relationships, the politics of love means basically being with a ‘destructive dictator’ who allows no say from those that they rule over (their partner). Power is often gotten by instilling fear in the partner and any perceived ‘crimes’ are dealt with by extreme punishment. It is best to know the signs to not get into an abusive relationship in the first place.

But if already in one it is possible still to develop a BMW relationship… Build More Wonderful relationships in the future either with or without the same partner, each situation is different…

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sex …

not our moral conduct … not the number of partners we have had… .not whether we have been good or bad…

not promiscuity…. 

first and foremost risk is sex…. once we have had….once we do have…once we might one day have… sex then that is the foremost risk factor … the other factors are spin offs of someone persons having .. yes right back to it … sex.. 

yet often we remain careless and casual about sex…..


and sure we might have sex casually but even so is there really a reason to be careless or casual about sex?

especially when it helps to learn our ABC’s ….

Abstain …. (not the only option)

Be faithful (not the only option)

Condomize … important one

Yes yes heard it before … ‘he doesn’t like to wear condoms’ but ‘she is allergic to the material’  … well in that case and in all cases it remains our choice how we conduct ourselves sexually …but even if we choose to go/accept ‘free willy’ sex we can maintain a steady testing schedule helping to ensure we keep a check on our status…

and we have improved our medical regime considerably so if our status changes it remains possible to have support to work at remaining as healthy as possible ….

as we go through life in the 21st Century as Lyfe puts it “It’s Real”


At its CORE A!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!N______~~~~~x^I^e)))))))))t-y is based on an eXcessive focus on SOME FUTURE  THAT one does not feel able to handle

Meditation teaches how to @STEADY THE MIND @Recognize that your THOUGHTS are not your REALITY and can be MANaged by you and @Trains you to focus on the Present Moment 

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