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So some had Spain down for the finals…

Some are watching Russia as possible champions…

and now these two teams meet, after having made it through Round 1…

#carryonfact what we might be taking for granted is that to make it this far, these 2 teams must have a decent strategy to handle the stress of sporting competition…

nice so they both come on and do their thing…knowing only 1 only 1 can go forward…

and they darn well play…after all the results show it…its a draw 1 Spain..1 Russia..

And its the same for Denmark …

As it is for Croatia…

4 teams all having the same pre-game experience and coming on that feel and they darn well play…after all the results show it…its a draw 1 Croatia..1 Denmark

now “say what!”

PENALTIES TO SETTLE DRAW!

NO…no critique of FIFA …after all what else, we get that

but we looking at some #carryon reality here…

after playing darn hard…after all the work..after years of preps…

going forward comes down to something that is so beyond the team… not true? # one man must take the shot

# any little error/distraction can make the difference

# might just be a matter of who misses first (which it is actually lol)

and then our goalkeeper… “say what!” #the team’s future now lay in his hands literally 

#BIGCARRYON HERE!

when we played our best …done all we reasonably could have done… know now its out of our hands… we #carryon by keeping clam…then by being kind to ourselves…and then by simply letting it go…

So to all 4 teams great games…but only 2 could move on…

Remembering Spain…Adios Senors

Saluting Denmark (don’t speak Danish)

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Dressed in yellow ready to support Brazil….

Backing Brazil in that first half they did not disappoint….

But as a Sports Talking Therapist….

what we can take from that match was this..

What an Attractive Australia team! sure there might have been the foul here and there, but for that team to come back in the second half and equalize meant….  

  • they had great #carryon …remained disciplined and focused even when things were not going there way
  • they had to have positive self-talk that remembered their own value, skills and ability in the face of a team that was bettering them in the moment
  • and as the commentator said in the match….”the Aussie team can play but they must learn to stop other teams from playing” … no doubt they studied their challengers and moved accordingly

Not sure what colour would be the choice for the next match…but sure to remain the Sports Talking Therapist as World Cup 2018 continues because with each match there is so much we can learn about how to #carryon on and off the field http://www.karryonservices.com/blog/

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Dear Positive Psychology People,

Do you know what often leads to “psychosis” or moving away from reality? It is when our reality has become 2 harsh…. that we can easily employ a

WEAK PSYCHOLOGY ….

where we refuse to accept the reality

where we refuse to view the situation for what it actually is’

where we focus on what should and should and should

Our psychology is strengthened 

when  we accept harsh

when we accept the seriousness and severity of the situation  

when we realize it cannot be ‘business as usual’ 

when we realize that life is now demanding that we become a different and better person who is able to deal and heal 

……………………………………………………………………………………………..

So to all out there harsh comes in different ways forms and times and we can choose INSANITY or ACCEPT HARSH!https://karryon.privacemail.com/

Adan Mother-May-I 

 

 

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Mr. Adan Mother-May-I is always on stage….

everything is about appears

everything is about the glitters & the glamour….

so he does everything to seduce & entice the partner who for him would make him look good …..

and this training he would have gotten from MaMa….for MaMa is who Mr. Adan continues to work to prove to that he is “good enough”

What does it mean for his partner?  

His PARTNER is expected to act as he desires

His partner is expected to read his signals to guide their behavior

His partner must never question for Mr. Mother-May-I knows best

What if the partner complains? 

Son And Mama Manipulate You…..

they DO WHAT THEY HAVE TO to convince the partner that going against their suggestions would be a very unwise decision..not sometimes..but ALWAYS….

What sort of person then is best suited to Mr. Adan Mother-May-I? 

THE partner PREPARED to LOSE their SELF!

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Richard looked twice…but thought maybe not a little while later there she was…tapping him on his shoulder…Shera..Richard and Shera had not seen each other for some years…they chatted and then Richard gave his number and suggested to Shera she could call sometime…

As time passed along on occasion those odd days of chilling out ..relaxing…lazing around…Shera would try to buzz…most times Richard’s phone would be busy…this happened a few times…Shera would be chilling out..relaxing..lazing around…and give Richard a call and the phone would be busy…Shera thought nothing of it…except she wondered how it never occurred to Richard on one of those occasions to check who might have called…

Time passed and again Shera and Richard met up accidentally ..of course Shera casually commented she called and his phone was actually always busy…

Richard seemed pleased as he smiled and then laughed mildly….

“Oh! that’s how it is..everybody always tells me that…you could probably try calling around…..”

PAUSE…..https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/one-sided-relationship/1269161

Shera looks and feels confused and so asks….”Wait, you don’t call people.” Richard laughs…”most people call me…it’s easier that way…I’m usually so busy” … Shera could not drop the subject..it was so new to her…she then asks …”So what about your girlfriends” Richard again seemed quite pleased and then proudly informed that “actually I’ve always entered relationships after being pursued by girls”

Richard Must-B-Joking…. 

Shera looked at him in shock!

Now there is a level of compromise that is required and healthy in relationships, be it friendships or romantic relationships…

And there is a level of give and take in relationships that is absolutely beneficial to one person while it works to the hurt or disadvantage of the other….and the one in the advantageous or beneficial role often is quite comfortable…

How comfortable are you in your relationship?

Are you with a Richard Must-B-Joking? How has that been working out for you? Do you feel emotionally, mentally and physically drained? https://karryon.privacemail.com/

Sometimes it pays to take a little more time and do it real slow especially when the stakes are quite high

E.I. … on the surface the two might look quite the same but the results are oh so different https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/emotional-intelligence

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During one of her bouts of deep depression Ana May allowed herself the unguarded moment where some insight and truth, her truth was let in…

she Ana had always been the one making the compromises…her Dick simply expected her to

she Ana could always be sure of expressions of love from Dick after he received a compliment on her behalf, after lovemaking, after her support resulted in Dick realizing his goals…

Ana thought to herself but surely nothing is ‘wrong’ with these things, after all ‘any good woman would be happy to do these things’

then a wave of tears came….

its just that Ana allowed herself to admit…

even though she hardly asked for much her little requests were usually considered ‘badly timed’ ‘not really necessary if she thought it over’ ‘giving Dick undue stress’ or ‘just Ana being silly’…

but she Ana never…NEVER EVER would consider any ANY of Dick’s requests as ‘badly timed’ ‘not really necessary if she thought it over’ or ‘undue stress’ or ‘Dick just being silly’ … she waited upon Dick and waited and waited and waited upon Dick for years… 

the tears came down uncontrollably now..as Ana May whispered bitterly ‘he never really loved me in a real way but that **** Dick sure loved all I did for him!’ …. ‘he never cared’ .… the pain of the thought was excruciating  and Ana only just heard Anabel’s cries because her friend had rushed in the room to comfort the child…

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Ana May hopes that her story helped someone

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