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Yes, yes, yes, it’s that time of year again, it’s Valentine’s Day. Who exactly is this day geared towards? Please not the politically correct answer, could we give the one we instinctively and intuitively know to be true. Okay, for those of us who might need a hint think of the items that are most associated with Valentine’s Day. Now, while we would not want to step on the ladies parade of flowers and roses, might we ask an ever pressing question? When exactly do we give our men some good affectionate attention devoid and divorced from sex? Seriously! It is quite ironic though how many women often complain about the one-track focus of men. Where or how might such a focus be learnt? Let’s explore, shall we?

Why? Hug A Man!

1)   Having a male child

About a few weeks ago during a group discussion a young mother noted that coming from a predominantly female family how she had to learn how to interact and interface with her young son. This mother’s awareness is commendable; however how many of our mothers in our regional female-headed households hold this consciousness?

Some young men in fact too many of our young men might be able to tell the stories of walking in the shadow of an absentee father and getting as little affection even as a young child as their mother’s estranged spouse.

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Could we get caught up in a LIP Service Love Insurance Plan as a couple? What does that look or sound like? 

Lots of crap taking place following with lots of pledges of forever love….talk is talk

And even talkers move in together, get married and have children together…the difference usually is in how couples experience their relationships…love relationships are hard work sure…but when you begin to feel like you’re not a trained dentist but ‘pulling teeth’ to keep a relationship going or to keep loving feeling for a partner…well…really what sort of Insurance PLAN are you working with as a couple?

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It’s funny when you thought you knew and were singing the lyrics of a song and then find out the real lyrics…so there were some fb discussions on this song … real issue being why have her sexuality so vocally lyrically on display in song…

well some might say its the festival of Carnival…

but does that really explain when we hear it from other cultures and other genders.. what about a vocal declaration in song that … “that PU*** is mine!”…

okay so now you might want to suggest its an ethnic thing… this vocal portraying of our sexuality…how then do we explain “I want to sex you up!”…

Hard to explain right.. okay so now its a generational thing…maybe maybe its more out in the open now … but when we hear “saltfish” no matter where we are from someone we get its not referring to a fish we would have on our literal plate…

Need we go on…. can we admit then we are Sexy for Life…

and if that is the case then we can run but we surely cannot hide… and this is the idea behind this upcoming Real Talk ‘n Real Time where we tackle the taboo topic of our sex and our sexuality … Tune in to YouTube soon soon coming soon….

 

 

 

Oh … Observe Observe Observe….

as a therapist one observation is how little therapists are prepared to become entrepreneurs but fortunately with observation the opportunities are there for learning…

so no need to be a #therapist in distress we can #carryon by getting a #businesscoach or simply a #lifecoach (to plan a way forward within our context) @ https://karryon.privacemail.com/

It becomes a dark night with little to cheer when Losing A Life Partner… but in time the bright spots might be found…do hope some might be discovered Out On A RIG…

sometimes it can be beneficial to seek supportive therapy or if ready to try to go forward with the new reality some life coaching..both available @ https://karryon.privacemail.com/

#lifecoahing

#onlinetherapy

Dear Positive Psychology People, 

As you know within any group there are sub-groups, today turning attention to our positive psychology people who are…

non-parents… so

Dear Non-parents,

Attended a fantastic symposium last Friday where persons were able to brainstorm and share views on social topics…guess what came up?

pressures on those “of age” with no children, pressures on those against the “biological clock” … so

as Positive Psychology Non-parents, 

let’s highlight our Do’s and Dont’s……

we Don’t;

  • Deny our reality or that of the social pressures
  • Defend our right to have our views
  • Deny other people their right to their views
  • Do nothing and pretend the reality would go away…

what we Do;

  • Develop our own unique point of view on the matter (positive psychology is all about being strength-based)

therefore a positive psychology non-parent asks, would I want to have children eventually, if no, then how do I maintain a life that I am comfortable with while allowing society to hold their views

if yes then; …what are the options available to me as an individual that I would be most comfortable with … and positive psychology people are people that progress…so the next thing is to move forward in the direction of chosen options…

Yet part of accepting reality is accepting the pressures, so in the event that it is viewed as needful or helpful remember there is #onlinetherapy or #lifecoaching available via #Karryonservices @ https://karryon.privacemail.com/ 

#biologicalclock #parentingmatters #abortion #adoption #moderndaylife #blendedfamilies #gendermatters #malematters #femalematters

 

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