Another ROYAL wedding is coming up….
people are interested or maybe even some not so interested
But do you know what is soooooooo very interesting?
The little interest people show in their very Own Royal Wedding
What does this mean?
First let us rewind…rewind to the practices, people, process that led up to this Royal Wedding…
What practices? …those are the things that the couple did together or did not do together that led to creating a level of closeness
Who people? …for starters the couple of course, then their might be friends and family who are also influencing
What process? …actually that should really be processes for plural..the communication process of the couple, the conflict resolution process, the power dynamic process and it goes on and on….
And when all these come together a decision is made to have an event called a wedding…
And our wedding is always a ROYAL wedding…how so?
Because we are always making a decision on that day to
Yet many of us only focus on having a ROYAL looking wedding..meaning we must look like royalty…and focus little on the patterns of our relationship and whether it is worth committing to such patterns for a lifetime
And sure relationships change,,,but let us be real there is a comfort that comes after a wedding and its called the comfort of marriage..where we expect to a major degree that our partners would not go flipping the script on us…
so do you have your very own Royal Wedding coming up, be sure to consider what the yesterdays were really like and how comfortable you are with those yesterdays becoming your todays and tomorrows https://karryon.privacemail.com/