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Parenting Matters

Belonging and Connectivity are important for children to have a healthy self-esteem…as children begin to go out into the wider World, it is their peer group that they want most to connect with and belong to….and so it is important to help our children to have a desire to belong and connect to a group of friends/peer group that would help them become ‘good citizens’ of their little school community http://www.karryonservices.com/2018/05/21/yellow-for-friendship/

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Know Your Friends! and help the children know who are theirs

Order stability creates a measure of safety and security for our children as they grow and become more and more independent and explore their World.

Rules;

part of what creates that is understanding that their are rules….

Egocentric;

children are naturally ego focused the younger they are and its necessary…part of the adults job is to help them learn how to move beyond and interact with others and consider others…

Rules/Discipline/why?…

Rules are all around and those who do not follow rules are in one way or the other isolated…this is what we begin to teach with the idea of a ‘naughty corner’ … (it is important then that children understand the reason for a naughty corner)

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Dear Positive Psychology People, 

As you know within any group there are sub-groups, today turning attention to our positive psychology people who are…

non-parents… so

Dear Non-parents,

Attended a fantastic symposium last Friday where persons were able to brainstorm and share views on social topics…guess what came up?

pressures on those “of age” with no children, pressures on those against the “biological clock” … so

as Positive Psychology Non-parents, 

let’s highlight our Do’s and Dont’s……

we Don’t;

  • Deny our reality or that of the social pressures
  • Defend our right to have our views
  • Deny other people their right to their views
  • Do nothing and pretend the reality would go away…

what we Do;

  • Develop our own unique point of view on the matter (positive psychology is all about being strength-based)

therefore a positive psychology non-parent asks, would I want to have children eventually, if no, then how do I maintain a life that I am comfortable with while allowing society to hold their views

if yes then; …what are the options available to me as an individual that I would be most comfortable with … and positive psychology people are people that progress…so the next thing is to move forward in the direction of chosen options…

Yet part of accepting reality is accepting the pressures, so in the event that it is viewed as needful or helpful remember there is #onlinetherapy or #lifecoaching available via #Karryonservices @ https://karryon.privacemail.com/ 

#biologicalclock #parentingmatters #abortion #adoption #moderndaylife #blendedfamilies #gendermatters #malematters #femalematters

 

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Why is it even important? 

After doing the session which was nothing short of energy and fun… it was again obvious the need for PTA, even at this age some children take boldly to watching themselves, while others shy away from the mirror … taking time to tune in to what is being shared in both video can go along way to ensure your child can bravely boldly and lovingly look at him/herself and know they have all within to progress upwards and onwards … tune in  

Children who feel connected to family relatives and home will tend to have a stronger self-image…. remember we must use TACT with our little ones. 

Relationships involve give and take and our relationships can only head to ward exceptional when we are both willing and able to give as well as we take. While some say it is better to give than to receive, when it comes to our relationships if or when we do all the giving that better we expect to feel soon goes to ward bitter… before focusing on giving to others in relationships we must first give to ourselves the permission to receive from others in that way while we are giving we will realize when we are being short-changed in a relationship before continuing along and becoming bitter

“All the world’s a stage,
And all the men and women merely players;
They have their exits and their entrances,
And one man in his time plays many parts,
His acts being seven ages….” …

….At first, the infant,
Mewling and puking in the nurse’s arms.
Then the whining schoolboy, with his satchel
And shining morning face, creeping like snail
Unwillingly to school. And then the lover,
Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad
Made to his mistress’ eyebrow. Then a soldier,
Full of strange oaths and bearded like the pard,
Jealous in honor, sudden and quick in quarrel,
Seeking the bubble reputation
Even in the cannon’s mouth. And then the justice,
In fair round belly with good capon lined,
With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,
Full of wise saws and modern instances;
And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts
Into the lean and slippered pantaloon,
With spectacles on nose and pouch on side;
His youthful hose, well saved, a world too wide
For his shrunk shank, and his big manly voice,
Turning again toward childish treble, pipes
And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all,
That ends this strange eventful history,
Is second childishness and mere oblivion,
Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything…”